Tiffany Needs a Bubble

Various people have threatened to make me go live in a bubble, at various points of my life.  They’re (usually) joking, but with every joke, there’s a kernal of truth.
Between Thanksgiving and Christmas, I was down with pneumonia for three weeks.  Straight.  Went to the doctor five times, got two different shots of steroids, two different shots of antibiotics, was prescribed my own nebulizer for daily breathing treatments, had five prescription inhalers, and also was prescribed two different oral antibiotics, a cough medicine with codeine, an antihistamine, and a separate medication for congestion.  I felt like I was singlehandedly keeping the medical industry in business during that time – seriously!  Add up the dollars for those visits and those meds plus the nebulizer – we’re talking mega-bucks here, and thank God for having great insurance coverage.
I joked to my boss, about a week after I returned to work, that I felt like I’d paid my dues for the winter season and that surely being so sick for so long would mean that I wouldn’t get sick again all winter.
WRONG!
And how.
I took the family to Boston with me about two weeks ago.  I had a business meeting to attend up there, and took an extra day off from work so we could spend some time sightseeing around a very neat city.
While we were there, strolling around Quincy Market before heading back to the airport, baby Catherine got sick as a dog.  We’re talking simultaneously ruining her outfit, her sweater, her coat AND leaving a huge mess in her stroller for her dad to deal with while I tried to get her cleaned up and changed.  Barely after getting settling onto the plane a couple hours later, she repeated the feat while on her father’s lap.
Ugh.
The day after getting home, I started feeling a little iffy, later at night.  Thought I would get it out of my system quickly, like Cate did, and get on with life.  But the next morning, everything was still abandoning my body like a tornado siren had sounded.  And unlike Cate, I wasn’t able to take in any foods or liquids.
Not good.
So we headed to the E.R., figuring that they’d pump me full of (IV) liquids and send me home.
Nope.  About six hours after arriving, I was instead admitted.  In the not-quite-medical terms of the ER terms, my blood looked bad.  The white blood count was twice the upper end of the normal range, and various other numbers were out of whack.  Added to the fact that the IV wasn’t stopping my body’s internal evacuation and I earned myself a one-way ticket upstairs.
I still thought it was no big deal.  I actually asked the admitting nurse if I would get to go home the next morning.
She laughed at me!  For several minutes!
Nope.
Turns out that my immune system, already being severely strained from the pneumonia, was putting up no fight at all against a pretty nasty infection.
And so there I stayed for five days.  Five very long days, where I got to see my daughter for half hour snatches once or twice a day and largely spent the rest of the time alone.  Well…as alone as you can get while being visited by various doctors, nurses, aides and techs, who seemed to have made a pact that SOMEONE should come see me at least once an hour.
When I finally got out, a week ago, I was weak as a kitten, still not feeling great, but at least well enough to finish recuperating in my own home instead of in a hospital that was great at providing meds but horrible at providing rest.
And so that’s where I’ve been disappeared to, these last few weeks.  Once home, I spent a lot of time sleeping or vegging, avoiding anything more strenuous than kissing baby Catherine or turning the pages of a book.  I started back to work, from home, on Tuesday, and followed up with a partial day in the office today.
I am very pleased to report that I am doing much better now and I look forward to getting back on track with quite a number of posts that I have planned for this and my other blogs – stay tuned!
In the meantime, I’m busily shopping online for a new bubble!

Toddler Self-Mutilation

Here's a problem I never thought I'd be exploring as the mom of a young toddler: self-mutilation!

And I'm hoping I'm not the only mommy who is/has dealt with this!

Picture the scene: a happy little girl is playing on the floor with her favorite toy...when she suddenly lifts it off the floor and starts banging it against her head.  Next clip, a cranky little girl is sitting in a room and starts banging her head against the wall or the floor out of either anger or frustration.

What. The. Heck!?

To be honest, the concept of a baby hurting themselves purposefully is just more than my mind can fathom.

After consulting Dr. Google, I'm seeing information about rhythmic banging, or banging against something relatively harmless like crib rails.

So I'll put it out to you, readers.  Have you experienced this?  Have any explanations, or, better yet, solutions???

I can't wait to hear your ideas!

Turn it OFF!

Welcome to Tuesday Travels with Tiffany!  I'm so glad to be bringing you new editions of this column in 2010!

Today, we'll be talking travel and technology.

Technology is such a bummer sometimes.  Just when you've finally learned how to use a piece of equipment, or mastered a type of software, the next edition comes out and it's time to start over.

But what's amazing is a particular technological function that has never really changed, over the last hundred or more years.  Sure, it's placement may have moved, or the steps to use it could have changed, but all-in-all, no change.

Allow me to introduce you to...the OFF button.

This advice is for you, Mr. All-Important Business Travel, or Mrs. Super-Busy Soccer Mom.  I fully well realize that you believe that your time is more precious than mine, or that you believe that you need not be bound by the same rules as everyone else.

But you're wrong.  Want to know why?  Because for every minute a flight attendant has to search for people who haven't mastered the off button, it's a minute of MY time that you've wasted.  And YOUR time is no more precious than MY time.  And in fact, OUR time is being piddled away while we sit on the ground and wait for you to say "goodbye."

Want to know why else?  Because as dumb as you might believe it to be to have electronics turned off at the beginning and end of flights, it's not.  Airlines have rules and regulations for a reason.  And if you have an issue with that, take it up with regulators or airline officials at some other time.  But giving the airline a figurative middle finger by disobedience while on a flight is unacceptable.

Say goodbye, shut it down, and sit back for the ride.

Trust me, we'll all be happier!

And until next time,

Safe travels!

New Year, New Milestones

Even after 15 miraculous months of watching Spoiled Baby grow and learn, it never ceases to amaze me how many milestones there are in the life of a child, and how often they occur!

As I blog my way into 2010, highlighting those milestones and talking about other parenting joys and challenges will be some of the main topics you'll see here, as I work to get back to posting more regularly.  2009 was a challenging year to post regularly; between an extended time off for maternity leave, and job and family drama later in the year, balance was hard to achieve.  This year, I'm super hopeful in having learned from those lessons and having made smarter goals to become a better blogger.

I look forward to sharing that journey with you as the year progresses!

To 2010!

New Year, New Plans!

Howdy!

Welcome to 2010 - and I'll bet I'm not alone in saying "Thank GOD" it's a new year!

For a variety of reasons (maternity leave early in the year, family/employment drama later in the year), I was an inconsistent blogger here and at my other sites in 2009.  I hate that!  I love blogging, because I love writing AND I love the social aspect of connecting with my readers and with other bloggers.

So I'm excited for this year and for new goals and objectives and a new chance to get back to blogging regularly.

 Because I thrive on structure, I'm going to be focusing on a few main points for posts this year.
  1. Travel - I love sharing these stories, quips and tips with you, and have a list of a TON more to work on - these kick back off tomorrow.
  2. Writing - this is going to be a fairly unbounded area.  It will include talking about my goals as a writer, talking about the mechanics of being a writer, and occasionally sharing some of my writing.
  3. Current Events - this is what I've traditionally called "Tiffany Takes On."  I'm not going to bore you with my thoughts on everything going on in the world, but when something fires me up - and so often, it does - I'll be here to share it!
I've discovered and am LOVING "Blogger in Draft" so you might also see a few design things here that are different.  If I use a "Blogger in Draft" tool that is not yet available in "Blogger Beta," I'll try to highlight it.

Happy 2010, and looking forward to reconnecting with ya'll in the blogosphere!